Making selections will always be challenging since weighing your options requires time and effort. Second-guessing yourself and feeling unsure are normal parts of the process. In many respects, they're a positive thing—a indication that you're considering your options rather than simply going with the flow. The more choices you have, the harder this process becomes. The more difficult this process is, the fewer choices you'll make.
People tend to favor options that they understand. This is natural since choosing something that you don't understand leads to uncertainty which can be uncomfortable. If at all possible, try to choose something that you do understand so that you don't have any doubts about its effectiveness or about how it will affect you.
Some options may not appear relevant until later when some unexpected event occurs. For example, if there's a fire in your building and you have an alarm system, then getting to the floor where the fire alarm is located would be the right decision. However, since fires aren't expected at this building, it might not occur to you until after the fact that you should have gotten to that location.
Your brain has limited resources that can only focus on certain things at a time. This is why it's important to prioritize your options so that you focus your attention on the most relevant ones first.
Finally, keep in mind that any choice you make has consequences.
When it comes to making difficult decisions, the worst alternative is to make no decision at all. When you perceive life as happening for you rather than to you, you'll recognize that even if you think you've made the incorrect option, you've gained an important lesson that will help you go forward with greater knowledge. An option can be considered bad when there are two or more equally undesirable outcomes. For example, choosing not to act when there's a fire behind you on the road doesn't mean that fire won't happen, but it does mean that you won't benefit from its contents.
The best option is always the one that allows you to move forward in life with greater knowledge and wisdom. Even if an option seems wrong at first glance, there may be a reason why it has been given to you. Consider what you have learned from this experience and use it to make better decisions in the future.
7 Ways to Make Difficult Decisions Easier
Making decisions might be challenging as an indication of depression. Many people stress over their choices. Anxiety might also contribute to indecision. Some people are held back by the dread of making the incorrect option and enduring the repercussions, as well as remorse.
Some feel they do not have the right information needed to make a decision. Others worry about the consequences of their choice even if they know what they will be like in reality. Still others fear what other people think of them if they decide one way or another too quickly.
Deciding takes effort. If you don't take time to think about your options and consider the possible outcomes, deciding won't be easy. Give yourself time to make a decision that doesn't cause undue anxiety for you or those around you.
One of the most common ways to become trapped in decision-making is to focus on all you don't know. So change your emphasis. Write down what you DO know about the issue, and believe that you, as the Queen, will be able to use it as you go forward. Then focus on what you don't know - and learn it too!
Finally, take time to make a decision, and stick with it. It may feel great to decide immediately after thinking about it for just a few minutes, but if you keep delaying your choice, you won't be making a decision at all. Wait until you are ready before making up your mind.
The more you think about it, the more things you will remember that tell you how you should choose. And the more sure you are about your choice, the better. But whatever you do, don't worry about what might happen instead. There is no such thing as "bad" or "good" decision-making; only decisions made out of fear or lack of knowledge will leave you feeling frustrated or incomplete afterwards.
So trust your instincts, and don't be afraid to make a decision even if you aren't 100% sure yet. The more you act like the Queen, the easier it will be to make decisions and move forward with your life.