How do you know if your husband is a narcissist?

How do you know if your husband is a narcissist?

"They are continually looking for ways to feel superior and to tear others down." A narcissistic person does not spend all of his or her time staring in the mirror. Instead, they are oblivious to their partner's needs and lack empathy. Refusing to accept responsibility: "When things don't go as planned, they lack a feeling of responsibility." Narcissists believe that everyone else is responsible for their problems.

If you suspect that you might be involved with a narcissist, ask yourself these questions: Does he or she make you feel important even though you know it isn't true? Do they treat you like you're less than human? Do they have a problem with authority? Are they always looking for admiration? If you answered yes to any of these questions, then you might be involved with a narcissist.

Narcissists can be difficult to detect because they will often project themselves into the role of protector. They will deny having any faults at all and will often react negatively when told that they have crossed the line into abusive behavior.

The best way to tell if your partner is a narcissist is to look inside yourself and see how you feel about it. If you feel bad about yourself for thinking this way about them, then they have succeeded in making you feel guilty for your own feelings. This means that you aren't crazy for believing that they are narcissistic!

Does a narcissist have remorse?

A lack of remorse, empathy, or forgiveness is included in the definition of narcissism. Narcissists have an idealized self-image in which they are all powerful, wise, gorgeous, and influential. Even if evidence proves otherwise, their false sense of themselves contributes significantly to egocentric conduct.

Narcissists are unable to feel remorse because they do not see themselves as responsible for their actions. They also believe that they are better than others, which prevents them from feeling guilty for what they do.

They may appear to be emotional during times when they are being criticized or when they fail at something they have tried hard to accomplish. This apparent emotion is usually just a cover up for what is actually going on inside them. When they realize that they can get away with it or meet with success, they can then be seen as cold and calculating again.

Even though they may have started out life as lovable children, they often grow up to be selfish and arrogant adults. They may even abuse their own family members through neglect or abuse. Ultimately, they will end up suffering from a deep-seated emptiness that can only be filled by more narcissistic behavior.

How does a narcissist behave in a marriage?

Narcissistic partners behave as though they are always correct, that they know better, and that their spouse is incorrect or inept. This frequently results in the other person in the relationship being furious and attempting to protect themselves, or associating with this poor self-image and feeling horrible about themselves. Often, the narcissistic partner will accuse their spouse of cheating or of having an affair without proof, which only makes things worse.

If you're married to a narcissist, here are some ways that they may be treating your marriage like it's a relationship with another person:

They may compare you to others, particularly previous relationships or friends. This shows that they have no idea what qualities they have, so they try to fix what's wrong with others by comparing them to themselves. For example, if they see you enjoying yourself with someone else, they might think that they're not attractive enough for you or not good enough for you to love.

Narcissists rarely take responsibility for their actions, but rather blame others for how they feel. If you tell a narcissist that they did something wrong, they'll usually respond by saying that they don't want to hurt your feelings or that you're just too sensitive. But understand that they've simply rejected you; you aren't actually hurting their feelings.

Narcissists tend to look outside of themselves for fulfillment.

About Article Author

Evelyn Mcardle

Evelyn Mcardle is a lifestyle writer who loves to share advice for women on how to live their best life. She has an undergraduate degree from Yale University, and she spent time abroad in France where she studied the language and culture. After college, she moved to New York where she worked at a publishing house that specializes in lifestyle books. She left that job to pursue writing full time, and she's been doing it ever since.

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